The Sultry Song of Solomon
A week ago or so a pastor friend of mine posted this text from Psalm 23, verse 6, on her Facebook page: “Your beauty and love chase after me everyday of my life.”
She lifted it from The Message version of the Bible. You might be more familiar with it translated in this way: “Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life…”
The way that The Message relays it, though, there is definitely the sense of pursuit, of yearning desire for union.
So I commented that the verse reminded me something of the sultry Song of Solomon.
She replied, “I’m just theologically sexy like that!”
I love that.
Theologically sexy.
Scripture can be shockingly, sublimely, sensually, sexy.
The Song of Solomon is nothing, really, but a poem about extravagant lovemaking, male and female oral sex, yearning and searching and hiding and finding, all between two unmarried people, one dark-skinned, and one light.
Breasts are compared to fawns; a man’s penis as sweet fruit and his genitalia as a bag of myrrh; the woman’s as a garden of pomegranates that should be eaten; lips and mouths are honey and milk.
I compare you, my love, to a mare among Pharaoh’s chariots. Your cheeks are comely with ornaments, your neck with strings of jewels. We will make you ornaments of gold, studded with silver. While the king was on his couch, my nard gave forth its fragrance. My beloved is to me a bag of myrrh that lies between my breasts. My beloved is to me a cluster of henna blossoms in the vineyards of En-gedi. Ah, you are beautiful, my love; ah, you are beautiful; your eyes are doves. Ah, you are beautiful, my beloved, truly lovely.
I am a rose of Sharon, a lily of the valleys. As a lily among brambles, so is my love among maidens. As an apple tree among the trees of the wood, so is my beloved among young men. With great delight I sat in his shadow, and his fruit was sweet to my taste. He brought me to the banqueting house, and his intention toward me was love. Sustain me with raisins, refresh me with apples; for I am faint with love. O that his left hand were under my head, and that his right hand embraced me!
Your lips distill nectar, my bride; honey and milk are under your tongue; the scent of your garments is like the scent of Lebanon. A garden locked is my sister, my bride, a garden locked, a fountain sealed. Your channel is an orchard of pomegranates with all choicest fruits, henna with nard, nard and saffron, calamus and cinnamon, with all trees of frankincense, myrrh and aloes, with all chief spices– a garden fountain, a well of living water, and flowing streams from Lebanon. Awake, O north wind, and come, O south wind! Blow upon my garden that its fragrance may be wafted abroad. Let my beloved come to his garden, and eat its choicest fruits….
How graceful are your feet in sandals, O queenly maiden! Your rounded thighs are like jewels, the work of a master hand. Your navel is a rounded bowl that never lacks mixed wine. Your belly is a heap of wheat, encircled with lilies. Your two breasts are like two fawns, twins of a gazelle. Your neck is like an ivory tower. Your eyes are pools in Heshbon, by the gate of Bath-rabbim. Your nose is like a tower of Lebanon, overlooking Damascus. Your head crowns you like Carmel, and your flowing locks are like purple; a king is held captive in the tresses. How fair and pleasant you are, O loved one, delectable maiden! You are stately as a palm tree, and your breasts are like its clusters. I say I will climb the palm tree and lay hold of its branches. Oh, may your breasts be like clusters of the vine, and the scent of your breath like apples, and your kisses like the best wine that goes down smoothly, gliding over lips and teeth. I am my beloved’s, and his desire is for me. Come, my beloved, let us go forth into the fields, and lodge in the villages; let us go out early to the vineyards, and see whether the vines have budded, whether the grape blossoms have opened and the pomegranates are in bloom. There I will give you my love.
Never once have I preached on these texts from the pulpit. Fellatio makes an awkward segue to most anything most anywhere, not least of all in the pulpit.
Preaching it is complicated even more because God is never once mentioned, not even by way of allusion, in the whole book.
Not once.
To make sense that this positively erotic book found itself included in scripture anyway has moved many faithful believers, Jews and Christians alike, to make some analogies between the passion of these two people to the love of God for God’s people, or Christ for Christ’s church (which is particularly awkward since the Song of Solomon was penned quite some time before Jesus appeared).
Most scholars, though, believe it to be just this: a gorgeous secular love song; the landscape itself voluptuous and lusty and succulent; about abundant and seductive love; love that shows the woman to be the pursuer as well as the pursued; that it is reciprocal; that is unquenchable until sated; that celebrates creative and complete and unabashed giving of their two bodies.
Perhaps it was included in the Holy Books because such joyous celebration of sexuality is, itself, a religious experience.
So why a blog on the Song of Solomon?
Is not the discovery of incredible mutually delightful unbridled sexuality in Scripture reason enough?
Go read it, now.
Perhaps with your partner.
And a pomegranate.
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The text of the short book can be found here.
An extraordinarily well-done and richly written piece on the Song of Solomon is here, written by The Rev. Dr. Alyce M. McKenzie, Professor of Homiletics at Perkins School of Theology. Read it.
A favorite Christmas hymn of mine is “I am the Rose of Sharon,” which is taken from this text. You can see and here it sung here.
My personal belief is that the Song of Solomon was purposefully included to help us make sense of the mixed messages we get from scripture about sex. There are entries throughout the Bible about the sinfulness of sex. Be it prostitution, adultery, incest etc. All of these are missing a key component that makes them less: Love. I think this Song is to purposefully remind us that sex can also be one of the great gifts given to us by God. Sex + true love is a great thing as demonstrated and even celebrated here. I really believe that we should use this text more in our teachings (at the appropriate ages of course) to reaffirm that sex is not bad and indeed is good if it is used in love and not in lust or infatuation.
Just my 2 cents….
Thanks, Troy. I don’t know why it was included, but your idea is an interesting one. It’s worth noting that prudishness is more of Christian ilk than Jewish!
Your comment also raises some further questions. There is exploitative sex, and then there is sex that is a manifestation of deep love. This song seems to be about the latter–although they two are unmarried, and they seem to be teenagers; at the very least, young adults.
How do we frame conversation about the Song with that knowledge?
A “biblical” sense of sexuality is very hard to find. Be it homosexuality, adultery, polygamy, and not least of all marriage; all had different contexts and circumstances then versus now.
This book is quite powerful because it demonstrates love and passion, both of which seek to be requited, and yea verily, often!
It’s a celebration that, just like you say, love expressed in sexuality is a good, good gift.
In all the church I’ve gone to in various denominations, I have yet to hear any mention from clergy about this text. I think Christians pretend it really isn’t in the bible. If indeed, the lovers in this story are young and unmarried, what does that say about the current Christian teachings of abstinence before marriage?
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